|
|
|
|

|
Home Music Articles Worst Break Up Song "Need You Now" By Lady Antebellum
|
|
Worst Break Up Song "Need You Now" By Lady Antebellum |
|
|
|
|
Written by GregoryHoward
|
|
Monday, 08 February 2010 |
|
Lets face it breaking up sucks. If you have ever heard the song "Need You Now" by Lady Antebellum (if you haven't make a point of checking it out, it's a great song) you may have sympathized with the characters in the song who are going through a break up and doing things all wrong.
by GregoryHoward
Lets face it breaking up sucks. If you have ever heard the song "Need You Now" by Lady Antebellum (if you haven't make a point of checking it out, it's a great song) you may have sympathized with the characters in the song who are going through a break up and doing things all wrong.
Here are the words in one line of the song: "It's a quarter after one, I'm all alone and I need you now. Said I wouldn't call but I lost all control and I need you now." Don't be desperate and start dialing.
The other line I find interesting is: "It's a quarter after one, I'm a little drunk and I need you now." Drunk dialing is even worse. The other mistake that is often made is texting the ex, and texting and more texting. You become what is called a Text Terrorist.
So what is the right thing to do to get back with your ex?
Be truthful with yourself and ask yourself this question: Do I absolutely want my ex back? Take hard look at everything here and make sure the true love is really there and this is not just a reaction to being alone or feeling by your self.
So did you answer: Yes I want my ex back! If so there is a process for you to follow.
You Will Not Want To Do What Is Expected
At this time being predictable is the last thing you want to do. Keep your ex guessing and make them work their way back into your good standing. If you keep them on their toes they will keep coming back for more.
How can you avoid doing what is expected? By breaking from routine. The odds are good that following the same old routine is what led you to this place to begin with. It's time to shake things up and do something a little new, different, and exciting.
Put Some Relationship Goals in Place
Even if you are separated goals can still be set. When you are trying to get your ex back, the goals are a vital part of the process. Goals should be set for different degrees of closeness and affection between the two of you and then achieving those goals is key.
Here is a list of goals you will want to consider: reaching emotional milestones, making physical changes and being able to control your temper to start with. It will be up to you to choose the type of goals that pertain to your relationship.
Make Sure You Hold Yourself Accountable For Both Your Success And Failures
Accountability seems to be something that is in short supply these days. It's vital to make sure you hold yourself accountable for failing to meet goals. At the same time you need to reward yourself big time for achieving those goals.
Two great motivators are reward and punishment. Use them to your advantage. Here are some rewards you might consider: a night on the town with friends, a new hair style, or a new video game. Try to make sure you are doing things that will help you to have an active lifestyle. You don't want to do things that make existing problems worse by creating a health issue.
From the Webmaster:
"Having the opportunity to share my hobbies and interests with so many people around the world gives me great satisfaction. As a bonus, I blog and produce websites about topics that interest me and receive ad revenue from the websites and Blogs."
You can live like this too. Get your domain name and set up a blog on your favorite place or topic. No come-ons. No "Get-Rich-Quick" promises. The results are worth the time and effort needed to build a REAL business.You can start your first or your fiftieth Blog or website to build long- term, ever-growing profits that can take you where you want to go.
For less than $10 dollars a year for a domain name and $3.95 a month for basic blog hosting you can start to earn from your hobby or interest.
To begin, Click here to sign up for a domain name and Blog hosting .
Or, Click here to learn more about starting a blog or website for profit.
|
|